Gentleman's
Time with Joshua Tremblay
This
week Joshua spends time with dining hall employee Esmeralda.
Amidst all of the debate and controversy around
Snack and the Dining Hall workers, I decided that the
subject of this week's Gentleman's Time should be one
of these workers. Therefore, I chose Ms. Esmerelda, who
is most often seen swiping cards at dinner and counting
attendees at Snack. We chatted during the slow time before
Frary closes at 8pm. She gleefully discussed her children
and her job, all the while throwing in jokes about the
rats that were playing on top of the heater across the
way from us.
When asked, Ms. Esmerelda quickly and excitedly responded
that she loves her job. Wide-eyed and smiling she remarked
how she really enjoyed it because it was social, "you
know, its like being part of the community." As
we chatted this became evident, as she warmly greeted
every person coming to a late dinner at Frary. It was
surprising just how many student names she knew, which
is both a tribute to her memory and to students for
being friendly at least. Ms. Esmerelda sincerely enjoys
the company and communication she has with everyone
going in and out, experiencing the community one story
at a time.
Ms. Esmerelda has been working at Pomona for five years
, not including an earlier stint before she had her
first child. Ms. Esmerelda has two children, one five
year old son and an admittedly very cute18 month old
daughter, of whom she always carries pictures of on
a keychain stuffed in her uniform apron. Ms. Esmerelda
works very hard for her children, whom she supports
herself. She literally beamed as she proudly exclaimed
that her son, who is in kindergarten, is part of the
Green Team. The Green Team is comprised of the students
who are well behaved and are already excelling at their
academics, she continued to explain, seeing the confused
look on this editor's face.
Darting a quick sideways look and smiling slyly, Ms.
Esmerelda guiltily admitted to me that she often arrives
at work about five or ten minutes late. We laughed about
this, but she quickly tightened up and noted the importance
of being on time. Ms. Esmerelda is one of those people
who has a great grasp on handling conversations, knowing
when to be serious and when to lightly jest. Besides,
she is late because she is waiting for her brother to
return from college so he can take care of her children.
She has been busy all day, too; she is going to school,
studying to become a dental assistant. This is no easy
task, especially since Ms. Esmerelda is taking on her
studies on an accelerated track. She is looking forward
to her new job, because it will be less rushed, but
still equally as social. She will not be leaving her
job at Pomona though, but will start working at both.
Ms. Esmerelda's outgoing and lighthearted nature often
readily obscures the hectic schedule of her day to day
life. But there is no doubt that Ms. Esmerelda is an
incredibly committed and integral part of her family
and community, both at home and at work here at Pomona.
With the weight of work, school, and children all on
her mind, Ms. Esmerelda is still in tune with students'
feeble problems. She said its hard at Snack especially,
because she sees "you [students] come in all the
time getting soda and coffee and I know you've got a
long night coming, and I'm just feeling like I wish
I could help with your papers and tests or whatever."
She had noted earlier that working at Pomona was nice
because "it becomes a part of you," and she
does not make this claim lightly. Her sense of community
probably comes from her family, she lives with her two
of her brothers and their children. The house seems
empty without the kids though, she notes. Frary is the
same she says, when it gets late and slow, but that's
OK, because Snack is coming and its always fun, even
when the rats dart across the floor like it’s
a "party."
Ms. Esmerelda has worked elsewhere in the Dining Hall,
even remarking that she really liked the day she got
to make pizzas, but swiping cards was still probably
the best. "I just get to talk to everyone, but
sometimes I wish I was helping everyone else, like the
ladies that do the salad bar. They have a lot to cut
up you know." This gentleman was pleased. It is
comforting to know that there is someone with a heart
as big as Esmerelda's working in my community, and I
am impressed that there is a person cares and gives
more to this community than most of us ever will. So
next time you go to eat, smile, and expect a big smile
back from someone who is a happy member of our community.
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