Be All That You Can Be in
Substance-Free
By Laurel McFadden
Staff Writer
I learned the other day that I am apparently part of a system
of intolerance, social ineptitude, and reclusion. It was a
bit surprising to be so suddenly and negatively categorized.
Further reading revealed that my dorm situation deemed me
practically a crime against social harmony. Shocking. It seems
living sub-free comes with a disturbing stereotype I hadn't
counted on.
Enlightenment in these matters came from the report recently
released by the Committee for Investigating the Alcohol Culture
at Pomona College (CIACPC). I had known being substance-free
was to a certain extent unusual, but am now learning of the
deep-running social grudges between sub-free and otherwise.
It is impossible not to be aware of the extensive alcohol
environment at Pomona, but it is relatively easy to live around
it in peace - or so I thought.
The reasoning, to my personal experience, behind choosing
a sub-free dorm is usually based in a desire to focus energies
on things more productive than drinking. Some choose, with
every right, to follow some concentration of the drinking
path, while others of us have decided to remove ourselves
from practices that cannot be denied as often distasteful.
However, alcohol is a significant part of the college experience,
whether participating in its use or not. The claim that living
in substance free housing makes one ignorant of drinking is
totally erroneous. There is plenty of opportunity to run into
any number of inebriated students every weekend. Those of
us who decide to live in substance free dormitories do so
in a simple attempt to avoid the unpleasantries of a largely
drunk population, not to form some strange ostracism of most
of our classmates.
What is interesting is that most comments of intolerance
come from students in non-sub-free dorms. Are sub-free kids
really such a nuisance that we encroach upon alcoholic fun?
It is to be expected that there will be some disagreement
between groups. The fact that such activities are disfavored
by a good percentage of the population, though, is merely
a division of opinion, and it is about as accurate to say
one party is "intolerant" as it is to call the other.
And while some drinking students seem to have no problem appointing
sub-free students as socially disabled, there is an abundance
of complaints from the same drinking people that they feel
stereotyped by people who just don't like drinking. There
have been many tirades against the supposedly disillusioned
sub-free people, but not many have pointed out that it would
be nice to actually not need alcohol poisoning training. Before
bashing the students who avoid the pressure, maybe some focus
should be put on the alcoholic environment, which honestly
seems to be a social and safety problem.
A major source of this unrest is the social pressures put
on students to drink. The unwritten social criterion that
mind-altering substances are a pre-requisite for community
acceptance is a disturbing trend. Before being overly distressed
by my newly-realized identity as a social outcast, however,
I considered that most of the time random people don't know
you're sub-free until you tell them. Somehow it doesn't seem
accurate to judge all individuals by their relative alcohol
use, branding those who decide against living with alcohol
as automatically "socially inept".
It is argued that substance-free students are at a disadvantage
both socially and practically for their living arrangement.
Lack of experience with alcohol can lead to dangerous drinking
situations as a sophomore, and alcohol "education"
is less stressed for those who assumedly have no need for
it. To a certain extent this may be true, especially as expressed
in personal accounts in the alcohol report. On the other hand,
it would seem much more reasonable to chastise the dangerous
social emphasis on alcohol rather than berate the sub-free
system. Sub-free is a retreat from this typical college alcoholic
culture, and is as much a personal choice with some consequences
as choosing to drink is. Individual choices made due to outside
peer pressures are not proof of that sub-free is a "horrible"
system.
To my own experience, I was actually fairly unaware of the
attitudes voiced in the CIACPC report. A good number of my
friends drink, and I don't know of anyone who actively attempts
to avoid friendships with people from drinking dorms. If anything,
the lack of mixing between groups goes both ways, in that
they don't really get over here, and we don't get over there.
Neither can be blamed for preferring their more comfortable
environment.
Substance-free housing should not be a social stigma. The
complaints stimulated by this conflict of interests bring
to light opinions that are surprising to find in Pomona's
liberal environment. Rather than getting tied up in the dichotomy
of cultures, drinkers and sub-free alike need to realize that
everyone has their choice. I hope we're all mature enough
to realize that in our diverse environment, no one can or
should be stereotyped. Be happy with your drink, but don't
berate me for staying alcohol free.
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